Benefit was held Uncle Sam's Bar and Grill Monday night, generated $650 dollars

Monday evening at Uncle Sam's Bar and Grill, approximately 4-5 dozen people showed up to support the benefit given in behalf of Laurie Meade.

The benefit was intended to help raise funds for Laurie to replace her beloved Blue Jean's Ice Cream Truck, which was stolen out of her driveway the night after Christmas of 2011.

Laurie generated over $100 on her own before the benefit by selling prepaid customized Ice Cream Punch Cards. She also said she had put over $200 of her regular monthly budget into expenses related to promoting the benefit, including ink for her printer, paper, and gas to get around to the businesses that donated to the benefit.

She said that money was from that which normally would have gone toward her cable and power bill, but she was able to get them to work with her and double up those payments the first of next month.

Laurie was overwhelmed with emotion, about the kindness and generosity of the people that were there.

She said there may have been a bigger turnout but someone pointed out to her today, that the date of the benefit was not printed on the top of the flyer about the details.

She told how exhausted she was having worked through the even and most of the night, editing the flyer and newsletter, and promoting and spreading the fliers during the day.

No one pointed out that the only date about the benefit on the flyer was in small print in the box of the articles from Tacoma Weekly printed on the backside of the promotional flyer.

She told about a women and man, a retired couple, who when asked at the door to donate, $1 or more to the benefit cause said, "I don't want to give you a dollar, I want to give Laurie a check!" They then proceed ed to write her a check for $200." She said later that evening during the auction bidding , the same couple spent $70 dollars on one of the items being auctioned. They left shortly after that, the woman joking with Laurie, saying, we better leave now before we lose our house!

Laurie was so appreciative of the kindness and generosity of the small group of people at the benefit.

She handed out copies of her new newsletter/newspaper, The Blue Jeans Ice Cream Times, which has advertisements and an article listing all the companies who donated to support the benefit.

Laurie plans on updating it every few weeks and passing it out off her new ice cream truck once she gets going again, but leaving ads in it from the donors through several issues of the newsletter at no charge to the benefit donating businesses.

She says this is one way she can give back and pay forward the kindness they have bestowed on her and her family.

Laurie also said that there is still a long way to go, but she is hopeful now. It is a start.

She also said she wished someone could schedule a time and event  that could be attended by families with children, as there were many who wanted to show support but couldn't attend because the benefit was at a bar.

 Here is the link if you would like to donate to the  Blue Jean's Ice Cream Truck Donation Fund.

     We are counting on funds now from this website to help reach our goal!

Today there was also a new lead in a maybe siting of the stolen vehicle.

Benefit Promotion Flyer With the Band Details. Print it Out and Post it in Your Neigborhood!

Hi everyone. The flyer is a little late because the guy who runs the band had his laptop stolen. He got it back, thank God, and here it is.

If you are one of my regular customers, please print this out and post it in your neighborhood this weekend.

Thanks,

Laurie

Isn't this an awesome poster. If you see me in my van, It will posted there until I have the keys to my hot little truck in my sweet little hands. :o)

Benefit Promotion Flyer Finished Ready to Distribute this weekend.

I just finished editing the flyer to pass out in my "ice cream neighborhoods" this weekend.

If you live nearby or live in one of my neighborhoods and want to help us, please contact me by subscribing to this blog or sending me a message on facebook.

http://www.facebook.com/findstolenbluejeansicecreamtruck

Here is screenshots of both sides of the flyer.

  You can download a pdf that you can print out and distribute for me if you like too.

    Click Here to download the flyer as a PDF file (Updated on Feb 6, 2012, this is the first issue of The Blue Jeans Ice Cream Times)

A sample of the most recent edit of the Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck Times can be downloaded here..

   That's the latest edit, I will be polishing it up and sending it to the printer by Sunday Evening so you still have time to make a donation for the raffle and get your businesses free advertisement in the issue before the benefit. Just send me an email or message me on facebook.


Hope to see you all Monday night.
Laurie

Just finished editing the Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck Times, 1st Edition!

I have been updating the first issue of the BJICTimes. I am still waiting on promotion pieces from two different sources before I can finish the flyer.

You can read all the details at my Facebook page here.

Below is a sample of the newsletter you can download and print out as a pdf. If you have any experience in creating ads, both classifieds or display ads, please subscribe or friend me on Facebook and let me know, I can sure use some help in that department.

I am inserting some screenshots
of the four pages two.

and the middle pages:

Here is the link to download the current sample.

See ya at the benefit, would love to have your comments.

Laurie

Tacoma Weekly Newspaper Does an Awesome Job of Writing And Helping Promote Benefit, FrontPage Coverage News Story

I am to say it from my heart, tickled pink tonight.

I can't believe what an awesome job Dave Hardt did with in putting together the article in this week's issue of "The Tacoma Weekly" newspaper.

You can read the whole article on their website, but that website  doesn't do justice to how wonderful it looks in print.

I scanned it in, but had to do it in three segments because it basically almost covers the front page of their paper. How awesome is that!

I love they way they used a fudge bar and the pink and brown coloring, highlighting a box with the details for the benefit right in the middle of the page.

This article is going to help me so much in promoting the upcoming benefit. I am going around to businesses to get gift cards, gift certificates, etc. donated to be raffled off. The biggest problem I am running into right now is keeping gas in my vehicle. It is really tough in the winters any how but especially at this time of the month. So even if you could only make a 5 or 10 dollar donation through paypal, it would really help with my promotion operating costs. Thanks in advance. Here is the link:

Again, every little bit helps. It takes $1.33 for me to get a buck on my paypal debit card, so anything above that much is greatly appreciated and needed right now.

Awesome article, about what happened and the benefit!

So here is that really cool photograph I referred to above, and you can go to the page above for the most recent updates on benefit news.

If you want to purchase a website link ad, or a business ad for the newsletter/newspaper, you can download a sample of the work in progress here.(This is an actual PDF file of the newsletter) (edited on Feb 1, with the most up to date sample)

I will be creating another post to explain more about this in the next few evenings.

It is a as of now 4 page newsletter that will have ads in it, plus an activity page for the kids.

I will be distributing it off of my truck once I get one back on the road, but the first page is going to be handed out at the benefit, and will have all the businesses who have donated or contributed in any little way within it, in some type of advertisement.

So if you own a business or a website and want some publicity please contact me, either through facebook, a comment here, or subscribe by email and send my your details.

Til next time,
Laurie
PS. I can still use help from those who only have time to donate as well. Just get a hold of me and let me know you want to help.

I do approve of me, I do I do I do One of My Great Ice Cream Days

 A Journal Entry  August 31-2009  Posted  Jan 14, 2012 here to share how much joy my truck brought to me on a daily basis.

(Author comment-- This comes from a person who has struggled with low self esteem and worth issues most of her 50+ years of life)

Yesterday I was SOOOO happy while driving my ice cream truck.

It was awesome. I wrote this journal entry in my mind while I was trucking across Pierce County between my two favorite places to sell ice cream.

That is a dangerous thing for me to do. WRITE a journal entry in my mind. Because when I do, then I never get around to actually SITTING at the computer and doing it. I just IMAGINE it and it feels as good as if I have actually written it.  I like to keep track on paper of these awesome experiences, so I don’t want to just write them in my mind.

:o) I have already done that a few too many times this summer.

Anyhow, I took a vacation the first week of August and went to visit family in Montana. I had planned it all summer, but the vacation including the few days before I left was so full of unwanted events, and really rotten feelings. This was supposed to be a vacation and be a happy time, it really gave me some things to ponder, the way it all turned out.

I couldn't understand why  it happened the way it did. 

Looking back I realize now I must have had a lot of unconscious resistance that I am not even aware of regarding being around my family that reared its ugly head in different events that happened during this time.

That is all I am going to say about that vacation. It is past, over and now on to the GOOD and BETTER stuff.

I have a stereo in my little Cushman truck with the speakers right up next to my head, swivel ones on each side so I can groove to my own thing while I play my music on the inside of the truck, while the hypnotizing ice cream truck music on the outside plays to lure the customers outside. This stereo, and these little speakers have made this summer so gloriously fun.

I listen to my favorite uplifting  music, or audio book, while I drive down the street finding young kids as well as old ones, :0) standing on the edge of the street waving their dollars,  fives and tens waiting to give them to me. 

It doesn't get much better than that.

Yesterday, a glorious 75 degree, no cloud in the sky--sunny Sunday afternoon, was about as good as it can get. I LOVE Sundays it is really easy to catch most people home.

Anyways I was listening to the new CD, and loving my job.

Despite the fact that some of the events during the previous month's vacation left my cash flow less than I usually like or feel comfortable with.

I stopped at a yard sale and was telling the folks how I feel abundant and prosperous as long as I have ice cream in my truck, no matter how few bucks are in my wallet, because I am only an hour or so away of driving to change the situation in my wallet.

It is such a freeing, powerful and wonderful feeling.

I found two really cute little owl knickknacks, (which I have begun collecting rapidly this summer.) While telling them I collect owls, they went inside and brought out these two cute little jewelry pieces, and I don't have any owl jewelry yet so that was just awesome.

August isn't the best month for ice cream drivers, mom's hold back because of back to school and maybe people just get burned out on us, but I wasn't letting that sway my mood at all.

There is a lot of competition here in Tacoma. I have found a way to think that doesn't let that upset me either. If I see another truck has gone through a neighborhood ahead of me, I have the attitudes of,

"thanks for paving the way for me, I will pick up the ones that you missed"

or if I see someone already eating ice cream....

"YES, it definitely is an ICE CREAM eating day, now isn't it.



Those are the things that I say to myself.

I have found a few spots where I seem to not run into others and have some pretty steady and loyal customers.

I was finishing one of those spots yesterday, when another truck was going the opposite direction, we actually passed each other. I finished that area anyhow, and one of my regular customers, bought from me even though they had just bought from her as well.

That happened again in the next Cul de sac, now if that isn't customer loyalty, that gave me a great big feeling of "I approve of me".......

I have been so busy driving, because of the wonderful weather, that I haven't had a chance to take the kids school shopping. Oh and it has been a balancing act, paying down bills and keeping the ice cream truck stocked.

So as I was driving across the county as I mentioned above, I decided to take the earliest part of Monday off, no matter how much I sold today, (Sunday} and take the kids school shopping.

Nothing like waiting until the last minute they start school on Tuesday.

I stopped and picked up a few groceries on the way home, and am starting the day out this morning making them a delicious bacon and egg breakfast, (yes I  did bring home the bacon last night :o) and out we go.

I plan on writing a book this winter, titled something like, "101 Life Lessons Learned by An Ice Cream Lady" or something similar to that. I already have my chapter titles more than half way completed.

Despite some problems in the bill department, life has been really good, and it is all because of my shift in the way I look at my thoughts.

I so got a new quote from the new CD I was listening to, "Beliefs are just thoughts that you keep thinking! You can change them by thinking different thoughts.”

I should have written this journal entry out in writing before writing it in my mind, it was so much more entertaining to me as I thought it in my mind  zooming down Spanaway Loop Road yesterday at 40 miles an hour in my little 3 wheeler.

Wheeee....... I do approve of me, I do I do I do......
Laurie

The Dave and Mike Show, TacomaWeekly.com Video about Stolen Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck

Here is a new interview done tonight, my new lucky "Friday the 13th."  This was done by a very nice pair of men from TacomaWeekly.com. This is a combination Web Show and Newspaper report. After viewing this embed video click through to watch more of their great show segments.




The Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck Stolen from Dave and Mike Show on Vimeo.
On Christmas evening while Laurie Meade’s family slept, someone stole their Cushman 3 wheel scooter Ice Cream Truck out of their driveway. The Blue Jean Ice Cream Truck was popular around town. The joyful music on her truck has been silenced, and the ice cream kids loved is no longer being sold by Laurie. Let's change that, and help her with the mission to find "The Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck"


BTW, if you click through to Vimeo, scroll down to the right bottom of the screen, you will find a link where you can download this video. Just right click and save as. Change the name. You can then, save it on to a media card, a usb drive and share it with whoever you like, even people you know who don't watch things on computer.

Be sure and pick up a copy of their newspaper which comes out next Thursday. Thanks again for all of you, caring, praying and supporting my efforts to find and/or help me get this truck replaced/found!
Laurie

A New Blog, A Way to Keep The Flow of Writing Going

I decided I need to focus on writing my book. To get started with that I decided I needed to get back into the habit of writing, and writing often. So I started reading one of my favorite author's book. Natalie Goldberg.

You can read more about it at the following posts. They are on this same blogger profile but under a different blog title.

Laurie's Writing Practice Edited Raw Files 
By raw files, I mean these are the words that came out when I wrote for a certain number of minutes without stopping. By editing, I mean, the only thing I changed was the punctuation and spelling.

Here are the posts I have done in the past couple of days.

I Remember, (a post about my Stolen Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck)

I don't remember Being Happy When I was a Kid! 

I am thinking I like being excited about something

I know that I can only deal with how I feel at the current moment.

I don't know what is going to happen in the next day, week or month.

So, you can visit those links to see what is on my mind at the current time. I am trying to keep my mind distracted from "what is" right now and focus on more positive and constructive thoughts.

All my best to you all,
Laurie

Today I am starting my Adventures of the Ice Cream Lady Book.

I just finished writing a short piece of software to do what Natalie Goldberg, describes in her book, "Wild Mind, Living the Writer's Life" as writing practice.

She talks about writing for 10 minutes, taking a short break and going 10 more, and she gives about 10 different sentence starters to get you going. These starters are very broad and can pertain to anything you are dealing with or wanting to write about.

I have this piece of software that actually creates simple .exe programs, that output your results into an html or copies it to your clipboard as text. I have used it many times in the past to create what I call "self improvement software."

I have actually sold that software in the past, but it is not anything fancy, nothing compared to Microsoft Word, or stuff like that.

But if you are reading this post and would like a copy to check it out, or just to see what I am referring too, just comment on any post on my blog and let me know you want my "writing practice software" and I will send you the download link.

In the meantime stay tuned, I figure I might as well use the publicity from my stolen ice cream truck to start to launch my book. I had created an outline, I actually jotted down most of the chapter titles during stops while I was driving my ice cream truck.

It was going to be titled "101 Lessons Learned by an Ice Cream Lady." That title may change, but I already have about 89 chapter titles.

So that is where I am going to begin.

I plan on creating another more positive youtube video, but my heart isn't in it, I haven't quite got to that place yet.


I am trying to stay positive,

Love,
Laurie

Way s You Can Help Me Find My Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck

      The other night I had an interesting and adorable conversation with a young boy. He liked my page on Facebook. 

     He said he wished there was something he could do.

• I don’t know how old he was. I think he might have been one of my summer loyal customers. It doesn’t really matter.
•  I just added a new way to help: Buy a Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck Prepaid Ice Cream Punch Card.

I have brainstormed several ways people can help me, so here they are:

Help that Doesn’t Cost Money  

(This includes things you can do, even if you don’t live in the area)

• You can download this flyer, Click this Link print it out and share it on your employee lounge bulletin board at work. Put it up in your apartment or homeowner’s association recreation area, send me ideas of other places I can spread the word.
• If you want to create a tshirt or sweatshirt to wear and help me spread the word, (if you live in Western Washington state) go get this picture, you can also edit it and embelish it to make it more personal to you. (I would love to see if you create something different. Please comment and share what you do)

• Even if you don’t live in the area, if you know someone that works at Kiro 7, Komo 4, and King 5, please alert them to my cause and how important it is for them to do a story for us.

• Call a Seattle or Tacoma Talk Radio and spread the word.

• If you are a student at college or high school encourage your journalism story to contact me and do a story.

• Subscribe to this blog so you can see when I come up with more ways to get the word out or news happens in our hunt for my beloved truck. (My daughter has always joked since the day I bought it that I love it more than I love my kids.)

• If you are an expert in either blogger.com , twitter, or facebook.com and how to generate traffic, for that matter all social media stuff, than please subscribe and contact me. I need special help in these areas. For example: I would like to create a faded background image of my ice cream truck for this blog, and I don't know how to do that.

• Since I can’t look forward to driving my truck if it doesn’t get returned or replaced, I am going to delve all my energy into writing the book I have outlined and planned to do for sometime now, stay subscribed to this blog to read about my progress in this area. :o)

• I  will be editing this list on an ongoing basis so please check back if you genuinely want to help us.
• Subscribe and comment to the articles on this blog and share them.
• Make a comment to the news article by the News Tribune.

Help that Donations Are Needed For.

• The cost for ink and printing of flyers and other paper related costs to get people to my page and blog.
• Donations for either/or  a Recovery/Replacement/Reward  Fund.  This currently can be done in two ways. (The printing costs are already taking a toll on my monthly budget :o(
•   By contributing to this WePay donation page.
  By donating to this link:
  
  
  
  
  This way will cost 3.5% of the total donation.
• ---- Or by sending a moneygram transfer to Laurie Meade to this account number. 70008700282134.  (This way only costs $3 no matter the amount.) You can also donate to this account by buying a prepaid money reload card. This is no different than buying someone a gift card.
• You can read more about it here.
  
  
• However, if  you do go to here and decide to purchase your own prepaid visa card,
   go to this page and read it first,
  you can donate $20 to me for no cost to you and get $20 of your own at the same time.
•  
• You can specify what you want your donation to go for and if you want it returned in case the truck is found and doesn’t need any repair or restoration.
•   Funds for Gas to keep posting flyers to help get Kiro 7,  Komo 4,and King 5 to cover the story as well.

Why it wasn't covered on insurance, a lesson learned the hard way.

I had a friend at one of my favorite forums ask me how long I had to wait on the insurance. I replied and this is what I ended up writing. So I cut it and decided to post it here, because it is more appropriate here than there. (I can direct her here to answer her question in length.)

I thought that since it was parked in my driveway it would be covered on my renters property insurance. I thought wrong.

I have had it in my yard covered with a tarp in winters past with no problem.  This year it wasn't covered.

When I strapped it up tight last year the seat mildewed, and I replace it this summer. I had gotten scotch gaurd but hadn't treated it  yet, and it had been there so long, no one ever bothered it. I didn't ever imagine someone would steal it from me.

Someone has explained to me since it was stolen, about something called comprehensive, non running or something, but since it is so old (its a 1992) I don't even know if it could have been covered that way.

When I drive it to sell ice cream, I had full coverage but that runs over $200 a month and I can't afford it all year on the non driving month's fixed budget.

The first year I had it I lived in a larger home and it was in the garage. The insurance agent did tell me if the house were to burn down or something it would have been covered, I don't know now if that would have been correct or not.

The second year, I rented out one of those commercial garage spaces, they call them MaxiSpace here, they have electricity, so it was my "ice cream shop." I kept my freezers over there as well.  It ran me almost $300 a month.

I couldn't afford that all year round, especially with the seasonal insurance as well.

It is an up and down business. You never know what the weather is going to be like, on a given day, or even a given season. Last spring, we didn't have much of a spring here at all. You never know which neighborhoods are going to be good or not, and how much competition you run into.

The last few years have been tough, not only because people are holding on to their money a little tighter, but lots of unemployed people, think "oh this would be easy and slap stickers on there vans."

Us seasoned ice cream people call them "the sunny day fly by nighters," lol. Most of them do it for one season and realize it is way more work then they realized. It doesn't matter though, in most neighborhoods, even if I had lots of regulars, who loved me, ice cream is a first come, first to get a sale business. Although I have had some regulars who have bought from me, even when some other truck has just come by, just because they really like me, that is customer loyalty. :)

Some people probably wonder why I do it at all.

Tommorrow I am going to do another video explaining that in detail. But to make a long story short. I have fibromyalgia and I suffer from severe depression among other problems, too. I take lots of medicine it is hard for me to get going in the morning.

It is an afternoon job. I set my own hours. It helps me keep money in my pocket all the time. It gives me so much joy when I am behind the wheel. I had a stereo on the inside with two little speakers, and listened to my "own" music, while I played the ice cream music outside.

I always played really upbeat, inspirational motivational music. I could be depressed and have to "force myself" to get going and it would only take me maybe 3 or 4 blocks and 2 or 3 customers, and I was happy and flying high. A natural happy high. 

It was medicine for my soul.

I adore the young children, they are so sweet, they always make me smile and I love being outdoors.

The guy who stole my truck, stole much more than the monetary value of my truck. He stole my joy, appreciation and love of what I did, and the tool and power that I had to do that on a daily basis.

In the news, I know this story isn't bad, compared to all the other horrible things we hear each day. To a lot of people, the 6,000 I paid for it may not be a huge amount of money.

But I can count on less than the fingers of 1 hand the times in my life I have ever spent that much on 1 thing, all three times it was a vehicle, and the time I bought my ice cream truck was the only time I paid it all at once.

(It was when I got the back pay after fighting 13 years to get my disability payments, then waiting almost two to actually see the money, once I knew I won).

The other two times, I spent just a little more than that, were two times in my life when I got a brand new car. A honda back in the 79 which I paid 6200 for and
I don't remember how much I paid for a Chevy Sprint I had in the 86.

I know you got a way longer answer than you bargained for, but since I am planning on doing this video tommorrow, explaining all this out is sorta therapy for my soul on the whole issue. Now all I need is a teleprompter. LOL>

I have to do another one, because the David Rose from Q13 is doing a segment on Washington's Most Wanted on saturday night, and I want him to use something other than the "raw emotion and too close to my face" video that is on YouTube right now.

I also want people to realize, "the joy" that I got every minute I was behind the wheel in that truck. I want them to hear me explain that, what I just explained above in my own words.

Kids Back in School, Life isn't getting back to normal for me.....

I just announced on both Twitter and Facebook that I am going to create another video.

I guarantee it will be better than the first one, because I found a tripod I knew I had out in the garage so I won't have to hold the camera at an arm's distance. LOL

I also am focusing on the good, in each moment, and plan to share how I feel when I drive my truck.

But my 17 year old daughter just showed me how to make a QR code for my blog. See the side bar.

That black and white square thingy over there. Take a snapshot with that and it will put all the information you need to come to this blog or send someone else to this blog in your smart phone. Too bad I don't have one of those thingies yet. :o(

Anyhow, so tonight after playing, mom the taxi most of the day, I am updating a few things here. Tomorrow I will be spending all day volunteering at the Food Bank so Thursday is probably the day I will do the video, while the kids are all at school.

So, a new QR Code, a new soft background to my blog of my "dearly beloved and miss seeing everyday baby", and I am going to go catch up on housework.


I also printed out several huge colored signs of my stolen image, haven't got it on a sweatshirt yet, because I can't find my iron on t-shirt transfer packages in my disorganized house. LOL.

But I did make laminated buttons and clipped them on all our collars today. They made it easy to spread the word, peopled asked me about them instead of me having to start the conversation. You will see them in the video.

I want to thank each and every person who is reading and following along with me through this journey, even if you aren't subscribing or joining through google. :o) Maybe I could get you to follow me on Twitter. Oh yeah, I added that, see the left side. :o)

All is well, and I am pretty good tonight,

Love,
Laurie

I created a design for a sweatshirt or tshirt.

It seems like lots of businesses especially corporate ones have policies about putting up flyers. So I created a design to print out an eye catching poster, that I am going to make into a transfer for a sweatshirt.

I will be adding a file that you can print out that has business card, and index card sizes of the important websites and the CrimeStoppers information.

 It is extra large and made at a high resolution, I apologize if it caused the page to load slow, but those are needed to get a good printout.

Here is the same image without the border in case you want to spruce it up with your own comments.

I plan on printing out a bunch of these and handing them out to anyone who comments on my sweatshirt. You could do the same if  you live here in Pierce County to help me out. Or just print out the buisness or index card info and give them out to people you know.


Again, thanks for all your help.

 God Bless you all..
Laurie

New Year's Eve, 2011 Tacoma News Tribune Masthead, My Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck, Thank You!

Here is a photo of the front page mast head of the News Tribune's copy of the day they published the story about my missing ice cream truck.

In the new year I am focusing on positive thoughts and vibrations, because I have always believed what we think we achieve and if I think negative stuff only more of that will come to me.

This  belief habit I have worked so hard to achieve kind of ran away from me last week along with my missing stolen truck.

Starting right now, today, I am creating and sending thank you and appreciation to all who have and are continuing to help me spread the word, pictures and news.

This is the part you can't see at the story page on my article.

You can click on the photo to see a larger image. :o) Don't do that if you have low Ram on your computer, this is a large image, I am so grateful for the coverage they put.

There is actually a humorous story behind all this. I went to the store to grab a copy Saturday morning. Janet Jensen, the kind sweet photographer had emailed me telling me my story was slated to be on page A3 on Saturday.

I grabbed the paper before I even looked at it and opened it to the 3rd page. It wasn't until a friend called me and asked me if I had seen the paper yet, that I realized that I was in the masthead as well as the nice article on the third page. LOL.

I am trying and doing a pretty good job of keeping my spirits up, by focusing on what is still good and what I can do.

Kindest regards to all, and please leave your comments and subscribe.

Laurie

Digging Out My Happy Ice Cream Driver Feelings through Journaling!

 A kind sweet person from one of my email gratitude lists, sent me these questions to help me get back to better feelings. As I said it is my nature to be optimistic and this mailing list helps me stay in that mood and attitude. I felt sooooo much better after generating these answers today, so I wanted to share them with you all.

You know what? Some of the same questions were asked by the interviewers from both Q13 and The News Tribune, but I was so far the other way I couldn't even get to these memories a few days back. I am slowly working my way back to the real me. :o)

Edit-- 01-10-2012--

I been playing around with a site called tagxedo.com and came up with this using this posts url.

What do you like best about your ice cream truck?
What I like best about my truck is the feeling I have when I drive it.

• I feel free.
• I feel wonderful.
• I love every minute driving down the road.
• I love the way the kids look for me as I come driving down the street.
• I love seeing their sweet smiling faces.
• I love the power and control it gives me to always have some cash in my pocket.
• I love the way I get to do decide how much ice cream and what flavors the to buy the next day.
• I love having the resources to give a child who is short on change an ice cream and light up their world.
• I love the feeling of sunshine on my head and shoulders.
• I love to listen to my stereo, and sing along to my favorite uplifting music as I drive between neighborhoods.
• I love the waves, smiles and attention I get from everyone that sees me in my cute little truck when I stop at red lights.
• I love the comments others say when they hear what I do, they reply, "That must me a really fun job!" it really is, most all of the time.

Where do you go with it that you enjoy most?

• Since the best sales are in the poorest neighborhoods, they are my favorite areas. I have several culdesacs where I have regular kids, I know by first name and they always smile and say__

•  Hi, "blue jeans ice cream lady?" where have you been, we miss you!" you are are favorite ice cream truck?
• I like the little kids who are patient and quiet and wait until everyone is done and say, I don't have any money, when it is only one or two, and all others have walked away I give them one of my cheapest ice creams, and love to see their smiles of appreciation.
  
• It is a feeling that cannot be imagined unless you have experienced it.
• I get asked all the time  for free ice cream from kids, but I really love to give it free to the ones that don't expect it.

 What kind of encounters/relationships does doing business in it bring you?

• I have met so many kind wonderful people. I have lots of regulars who stand and chat with me. We talk about our kids and all sorts of other things.
• I have got to watch little babies grow into toddlers and little kids to preteens.
  
• I have one neighborhood where one of my little kids that bought from me is now over 6 feet tall, way taller than me (I think he is now a junior or senior in high school) and he smiles and lights up every time he sees me.
• I enjoy shooting the breeze with my supplier every morning, sharing my sweet stories and watching his kids grow up as well.
• I even enjoy chatting with the other vendors while waiting sometimes in line on busy days at my supplier.
• I enjoy the jokes my supplier makes about me driving around in a pair of dungarees.
• Writing all of these memories brings joy and a smile to myself, I don't want to think about all of this being gone now.
• I park at several schools for about 10-15 minutes waiting for the bell to ring,
• I have received so many thank yous of appreciation from my kids who are really grateful I am there almost every day.
• I have actually given some of them a day or two credit, and they always remember they owe me and pay me the next day. It lets me see the best in these bright young minds.
• I love the compliments I receive on how unique and creative my truck is.
• I use to joke with older kids and adults who laughed at themselves for getting excited to see me that "I sell ice cream to kids of all ages."

If you could make absolutely any refurbishments and modifications to the truck, what would you do, and how would this affect your operations?

• I had made a lot of refurbishments. 
• I painted it to look like blue jeans.
• I have the little family sticker of my kids and I on the window.
• My sticker magnets looked like blue jean pockets.
• I had scanned the dollar items in a faded pocket frame different from the other frame so the young kids could tell the difference easily.
• The seat was longer and I had an extra seat belt so I could bring along one of my children occasionally.
• Of course I had covered my bench seat cover with denim fabric.
  
• This extra seat came in very hand because a few winters, my ice cream truck was the only vehicle I had for transportation.
• I used it then to run my errands instead of getting groceries on the bus I could get them in my ice cream truck.

If I couldn't get it back and money wasn't an issue, (I mean in a dream world) this is how I would want to replace it.

I would buy one of those new SMART cars and get the people that paint the ads on the side of buses to customize it with pictures of various blue jean patchwork.
(update on Jan 9, 2012, what this dream car actually looks like)

• I would have my website, facebook page and twitter printed on it.
• I would also own a smartphone :o)I would have a customized freezer and another compartment for cold water, soda, snacks and candy. 
• Even if that meant pulling a tiny little trailer with it.
• I would have it set up so I could switch from the music box on the outside to my car stereo on the inside. 
• I would have a microphone speaker worked into it so I could interrupt the music with a "Hi its Laurie the blue jeans lady" or any other comment I wanted to make anytime I felt like it as I was trucking through the hood.
• I would order a customized ice cream music box with some of my favorite songs digitized to be ice cream music. 
• There is a company online that does this. One of those songs would be "Raindrops keep falling on my head" I would play that on rainy days, and it would be unique to my truck and everyone would chuckle and comment about it when I came down the road.
• I would also digitize some of the kids favorites like, "I want candy" "Me Love"
• Actually before I ordered the specialized music box I would survey my ice cream kids and ask them what songs they would like to hear the most. 
• I would mix it with some from every generation over the last 50-60 years so there would be songs for my kids of all ages.
  

What are your best moments of working with it?

I would have to search through my gratitude journals to find the best stories, but I think I covered a lot of these in the questions above.

I am so appreciative for these questions. I was trying to get to this feeling where I am today, right now, last night and I didn't quite reach it. 

His questions have helped me jump right up to those feeling where I want to feel. I am going to print this out and carry it in my hip pocket to read during these days of discouragement and frustration that I am currently dealing with. I know rereading it will help me keep my spirits up.

I am feeling so much better and well this afternoon,

Laurie

Today's Appreciation List despite my missing Ice Cream Truck

The theft on Christmas day of my beloved Blue Jeans Ice Cream Truck means a lot more to me than money.

 My oldest daughter often jokes that I loved my ICT* more than I loved my kids. It isn't true but I did treat her like one of my kids, I even had a name for her. I called her Amy. (That is what I would have named another daughter if I had one.)

Anyhow, my ICT brought me so much more than money.

She taught me so many lessons in life.

That is why I started writing an outline to write a book, I planned on titling something like 101 Life Lessons Learned by An Ice Cream Lady.

Well that's about how far my goal for writing the book had come. An outline with about 82 of the 101 lessons mapped out.

But 3 important lessons I have learned in the past 4 years are encouragement, appreciation and joy.

Appreciation is the big one. I will go into the next two in my next few posts.

People make all kinds of judgements and comments about others without knowing the facts. They do it even though most of them have never even lived in the kind of lives of the people they criticize and judge for even a minute of their lives.

It is not easy living on a fixed income. Especially one below the poverty line.

You have to get really good at utilizing resources. It takes time. It takes patience.

For many years I have lived dealing with illness, pain, and worrying about how to make the money last til the next payday. I even  lived this way when I worked full time. Before I became disabled I actually worked 70 hours a week to make ends meet.

But something I have learned is gratitude.

Every day no matter how difficult life becomes I make lists of what I appreciate. It isn't hard to do. Even when you don't have much.

For example,  some jerk stole my ICT on Christmas day.

Well, I realized last night, that the past week has drawn me away from my appreciating and ricocheted me right into the pessimistic type of thinking that I hate to see in anyone much less myself.

I have never been much of a worrier either. So I am going to make a list of things I appreciate despite what has happened.

Today, right now I appreciate---

• that the jerks only took the ice cream truck and not both my vehicles. (I wouldn't have any way to get around now except bus if that had happened. )
• that they didn't try to invade my home or hurt any of us.
• all the loving comments, help, support and publicity that has come my way to help me recover my stolen vehicle.
• my warm home.
• I have met some really neat, kind, and wonderful people because of what has happened.
• all the food we have to eat.
• that it happened the night after Christmas day instead of on Christmas eve. (for some reason to me it makes it just a tiny bit easier to swallow how someone could do this during the holiday season)
• the love I have for and from my wonderful children.
• that I have had four wonderful years of using this truck that have brought me bountiful good wonderful memories.
• that during these years, I have met, served and enjoyed lots of wonderful people while doing my Ice Cream Truck routes.
• that even though it looks bleak now, we are starting a brand new year, and with it comes hope of better days to come.
• it only took me a week to realize I needed to jump out of the pessimistic slump and get back into being appreciative instead. :)
• the internet and the power I have with the tools it provides to all of us. (ie, facebook, blogs, google, etc....)
• my computer, printer and creative skills.
• today I appreciate that although there isn't much left after paying the bills to survive the month, I was able to get the important things paid.
• as Annie, so cheerfully says, "Tomorrow, is only a day away!" (we never know what tomorrow will bring and it can always be filled with wonderful surprises but they are especially more likely to happen if you expect them too.)
• despite whatever happens things always have a way of working out somehow.
• that last night or should I say this morning, or since last year, I had the joy of reading over 26,000 words of optimism, joy, encouragement and memories in my gratitude journals of how my ice cream truck helped me grow in joy, love, and spirit despite the many breakdowns, repairs and obstacles I dealt with over the past 4 years since I got it.

How you can help, in time, knowledge or money

*ICT abbreviation for Ice Cream Truck.